So, you and your boyfriend just started dating and it’s new or either you both are teenagers and you are making out with your new boyfriend. But My Boyfriend Humps Me When We Make Out..
And you kiss him in his erogenous zone and it is his weak point and after that, he starts humping you and you like it a lot.
You must be thinking, Why does your boyfriend hump you while making out?
Why? Why does he do it?
Even if you like it or you don’t like it, you still want to know why he does it.
First I am going to tell you what exactly is dry humping?
Dry humping is also called dry sex or intercourse.
Dry humping is basically when you and your boyfriend are wearing full clothes or you both are fully clothed.
Or you both are just in your underwear rubbing each other or grinding each other’s private parts.
So, dry humping is just dry sex, it is like non-penetrative sex, you both rub each other’s private parts with clothes on.
And you both can feel each other down there,
and can even have an orgasm through dry humping.,
Dry humping can please both of you(you and your boyfriend) and you both can get pleasure through dry humping without the risk of getting pregnant until and unless you both are not naked or either has any type of holes in your underwear other than that you cannot get pregnant.
And dry humping can also be done alone. There are many ways through which you can dry hump yourself alone, I am going to tell you how you can do it to yourself.
And everybody can dry hump their partners or even do it alone but it’s usually done by the people who have not had sex yet.
or they want to wait till marriage or they are waiting for the right person to do it with.
And dry humping your partner can turn you on and your boyfriend both, you both will feel very aroused because of dry humping.
And it can get intense between you two, and you will get an urge to have sex.
And if you haven’t had sex yet and you are not ready for it or you are not comfortable but you still want to experience sexual sensation then dry humping is the best and the safest thing to do.
you can experience it alone or either with your boyfriend.
And You must be having so many questions on your mind about dry humping
Well, don’t worry, I am here to clear your doubts.
I am going to tell you why” your boyfriend humps you while making out” in detail.
And I am going to tell you what is the risk, and benefits of dry humping
And I am going to answer some questions which have been asked very frequently.
And I am going to tell you how you and your boyfriend can have fun in bed without having sex.
And I am going to tell you some positions which are good for dry humping.
But first, let’s begin with why your boyfriend humps you while making out.
Top 6 Reasons why My Boyfriend Humps Me When We Make Out.
- He wants to have sex.
- Maybe he has a higher libido than you.
- He likes it
- He gets pleasure from it.
- Maybe he is using dry humping as foreplay.
- Maybe he likes how your body feels around him
1. He wants to have sex.
If he is humping you while making out then he feels the desire to have sex with you.
He is very much aroused and that’s why he is humping you and that’s his way of telling you that he wants you.
He is feeling very pleasurable while humping you, the friction he is getting while humping you, and the sensation he is getting from you down there is making him feel so good.
And if you are not ready for sex then you don’t have to force yourself for sex, or if you want to wait for your right person or you want to wait till marriage or if you are a teenager and not ready for sex or of you are on your periods then dry humping is your best option.
And if you want to have an orgasm without penetration with your boyfriend then dry humping is the best option, so you both can have an orgasm through this.
2. Maybe you have a lower libido than him.
Higher libido means high sexual desire or high sex drive, and lower libido means lower sex drive, every person has different sex drives some will have low some will have high and our libido changes throughout our life.
So, maybe your boyfriend has a higher libido than you. That is why you must be thinking that he is humping you a lot.
If he is younger than you, then his libido might be high because of hormonal changes, Maybe that is why.
you could also have a low sex drive that’s why you are thinking like that but the reason must be you, his libido is normal your is just low.
Maybe he is feeling the desire for having sex that is why he is humping you and you are not feeling anything because of your low libido, this could also be the reason.
3. He likes it.
Another reason for him humping you can be that he likes to hump you, he finds you very attractive and when you both are getting intimate that time he is not able to control his sexual desire towards you so he starts humping you.
4. He gets pleasure from it.
Maybe humping you is one of the things from which he gets pleasure, some people will only feel aroused through some things.
For example, some guys will only get pleasure if they go down on their women, and then only they get turned on.
And some will only get pleasure and have an orgasm by giving their partner oral, if they will not give oral then they might not even get turned on or it will be very hard for them to get aroused.
So, maybe your boyfriend is one of them who gets pleasure from humping, it could be one of the reasons he might get turned on by other things also but this is one of them.
5. Maybe he is using dry humping as foreplay.
Foreplay is done before having sex, it is a part of sexual activity and foreplay makes sexual intercourse more interesting and foreplay heat things between couples before sex.
And foreplay is very helpful for sex, it deepens the relationship with your partner
And foreplay will make both the partners very aroused.
And foreplay will not always lead to sex, sometimes foreplay is enough, and sometimes foreplay can be the main thing instead of sex.
And some people use humping as foreplay, and maybe your boyfriend is one of them who uses humping for foreplay, to turn you on and him both, to heat the things between you two.
And humping can be the main thing in whole sexual activity, you both can have an orgasm through humping, and you might even have one.
And if you haven’t had an orgasm through humping then you should try it once again.
And you should always start slow, if you start fast then it will not be enjoyable, it will create irritation so always start slow.
6. Maybe he likes how your body feels around him
Maybe this could also be one of the reasons for him humping you, he likes how your body feels around him and he likes it a lot how his body reacts whenever you both are getting intimate.
Now I am going to tell you about the risks and benefits of dry humping.
RISK OF DRY HUMPING:
Dry humping lowers the risk of getting pregnant and STIs, but there are some risks of dry humping.
1. Irritation issue.
Rubbing each other continuously can irritate the skin and can cause some rashes or pain.
so, you both should always ask each other if they are having some skin irritation issue because of humping so that you can do something about it.
2. Consent problem
If your boyfriend starts humping you without even asking you and you feel weird that he is humping you and if you do the same and he does not like it.
And dry humping someone without their consent can cause some psychological problems to them, it can affect them a lot if done without their permission so always ask them first.
3. Religious issues
In some religions having sex before marriage can be a very serious issue, it’s like a sin to some people if they got to know that some people have sex before marriage.
BENEFITS OF DRY HUMPING
Along with some risks of dry humping, there are some benefits also of dry humping.
Without any penetration, you both can have an orgasm through dry humping, and you both can pleasure each other through the proper way of dry humping.
You both have to just move properly, if it’s going well just go with the rhythm.
Just be careful it should be dry only there should not be any fluid exchange, if anything is transmitted then either you can get pregnant or you can get any sexually transmitted diseases.
So just take precautions before doing anything.
2. No religious feeling will hurt directly.
As I said before that in some religions having sex before marriage is a sin according to them, but you can still have pleasure and have an orgasm without having sex.
Through dry humping, you can have an orgasm and pleasure.
3. No pregnancy and any sexually transmitted diseases.
You will not get pregnant through dry humping and you not get any sexually transmitted diseases.
But you just have to be careful, don’t wear any type of clothes which have holes down there or don’t wear clothes which are of very thin material.
Just follow some precautions then you will be safe and happy.
Now I am going to tell you how you and your boyfriend can have fun in bed without having sex:
If you are young or you don’t want to have sex now because you are not ready or you want to wait till marriage or any other reason you have.
For all the other reasons of you not wanting to have sex but still want to get intimate with your boyfriend and not just make out always you want to do more things then now I am going to tell you how you can have fun in bed without having sex.
- Mutual masturbation
If you think that masturbation is done solo only then you are wrong.
Can masturbate with your partner together in front of each other, that is called MUTUAL MASTURBATION.
You both have to get comfortable with that, so for that, you should talk to your partner first about all this and then do it of course at first it will be awkward for both of you, so try to set the mood and scene, eye contact is the most important thing.
And the way you touch yourself is very important and it will be a chance to explore your body and how you like it and by that, you will know what turns on your boyfriend.
And through this mutual masturbation, you both can have fun in bed without having sex.
- Taking things slowly
Taking things slow is also one of the important things because if you will start doing things very fastly then it is a turn-off, it will be a turn-off for anyone.
If you are making out, be gentle and do things slowly, he should be surprised by your next move, and he will like it.
- Change the positions
If you are uncomfortable with masturbating in front of your partner in that position then changing position will be a good idea. It will be good for both of you.
And even if you are not uncomfortable then also you should change positions. It will be fun for both of you and more pleasing and pleasurable for your partner.
And by that, you will also know what other positions you like in bed.
- Strip teasing
If you want your boyfriend’s mood to be good in bed then strip teasing will be good.
If you don’t know how to dance then also it is ok, just strip yourself in front of your boyfriend very sexily and just be confident.
- Wear something good
Wearing something sexy when you’re with your boyfriend, you should wear something soft and silky, which will feel good against his skin.
- Use toys
If you don’t want to have sex but still want to have pleasure then using sex toys will be a good idea.
When you are masturbating solo you might have used some sex toys so why not do this with your boyfriend also, it will be a new experience for both of you, you both may experience having the best orgasm with sex toys.
But of course, before using sex toys with your partner you have to first ask them if they are comfortable with that or not.
- Blindfold your partner
You can blindfold your partner in bed, it will take your sexual relationship to another level and do sensory play with him.
You can tease him with some props or any seduction kits, you can use ice, feather or any type of teasing you like.
- Humping each other
Another way of pleasuring each other without having sex is humping each other, you both will get pleasure through humping.
But before doing it to your partner, ask for their permission whether they are comfortable with that or not.
And while humping each other make sure you both wear silky and smooth clothes, if clothes are not smooth then you will have skin irritation.
Now I am going to tell you some positions which are good for dry humping:
If you are always humping in the same position it can get boring sometimes, so here is an idea: try different positions, it will be something new for you and your relationship and you will get to experience things more.
There are many positions you can try for dry humping.
- Cowgirl position
In this position you will have all the control, you can control how fast or slow you want to move.
And some men love it when women take all control in bed, and it turns on them more so you can try this position for dry humping, this position is good for sex as well as for dry humping also.
Spooning is a lazy and cosy set-up, you both will be physically and emotionally connected through this position from your neck to your leg.
This position is mainly used in the morning when you both are half asleep, so when you both wake up you both can explore each other and hump in this position.
And for some people hip bones are their erogenous zone, you both can squeeze each other’s hip and you both will like it.
Missionary is a classic position everybody uses, you can also try this position, you can hump each other in this position.
If you want to make this position sexier then you can blindfold him and can talk dirty with him and you can even use different locations also it will be something new for you.
I am going to tell you how you can do it for yourself.
There are some ways on how you can hump solo, I am going to tell you how you can hump solo and have fun alone.
You can hump yourself through a pillow, with a pillow you can try different positions.
Women usually don’t talk about masturbating, so if you think that your way of masturbating is weird or different, but it is normal only, it is just that women don’t talk about that topic
Pillow humping is when a woman uses a pillow and grinds herself to orgasm.
And men use this masturbating technique too, they fold the pillow in half and insert their penis in it.
So, yes this masturbating technique is used by men and women both.
- Triple stacking
By this, you stack three pillows on top of one another and mount them, then start humping it back and forth until you get that rhythm.
- Riding the pillow
Riding on a pillow is like how you ride with your partner, like when you are on top, while having sex with them or when you hump each other while in a cowgirl position
So riding the pillow is like that only instead of your partner there will be a pillow
And you can even add a vibrator underneath the pillow, it will be a new experience. Fold the pillow
In this technique you will have to fold the pillow in half and place it between your legs, then you can hump in that position.
- Different shapes pillows
If you want to explore pillow humping more then you can use different shapes and sizes of the pillow.
- Stuff toys
You can use stuffed toys or big stuffed toys for humping because of their different shapes, sizes and features. Some stuffed toys will have a nose button which will be good for clitoral stimulation.
- Corner of the bed
You can even take the pillow to the corner of the bed for pillow humping, this way you will get more friction from the corner of your bed.
So, you can try this technique also for pillow humping.
These were some techniques on how you can hump yourself with objects.
now I Am going to answer some questions which have been asked frequently
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS – FAQs
- Why does my boyfriend randomly dry hump me?
The reason for humping you randomly could be that he does it for fun, it is his way of saying that he likes you, or how desirable you are to him, and maybe he is very much attracted to you, that is why he randomly dry humps you.
Or maybe sometimes he does it without even knowing that he is humping you, like when he is half asleep.
If you do not like it that he dry humps you randomly then talk to him about it, talking openly will deepen your relationship with your boyfriend, and if you both will talk openly about things then it will be good for your relationship and most important you both will be happy, so talk to h if you think at he is doing it a lot talk to him about it.
- Can you have an orgasm while dry humping?
Yes, many people have an orgasm during dry humping, and dry humping is a good way to have an orgasm if you are making out somewhere else where you do not have that much privacy, for example, if you are making out with your boyfriend in a car.
If you do not want to have sex or are not ready for it, then you can have an \orgasm through dry humping.
But it will take time to have an orgasm through dry humping so you have to set the mood and scene then it will be easy.
So in short yes you can have an orgasm while dry humping, just you both have to be careful while dry humping, you both should be fully clothed and should wear something smooth and silky and it should be slow.
In conclusion, if you like it when your boyfriend dry humps you then it is good but if you do not like it when he dry humps while making out or randomly humps you then you should talk to him about how you are feeling about dry humping.
I have said almost everything about dry humping, I have even mentioned how you can try dry humping in a different position with your boyfriend, how you can hump solo and in which type of technique you can hump solo I have mentioned everything, if you want to try this with your boyfriend then it will be a great experience for both of you.
Try new things in a relationship to keep the relationship strong and healthy in that way you both get to know new things about each other, your relationship will get deeper day by day, knowing what your partner likes and dislikes and if you will give importance to things what they like then your partner will be happy and they will also do the same for you.
If you are dry humping your boyfriend then be careful of what you both wear should be fully clothed and there should not be any holes down there then there will be a chance of pregnancy, never dry hump your partner naked either you will get pregnant or get any sexually transmitted disease, so have fun but be careful.