This is something that I got asked a lot while working at a dispensary. My answer was always simple and straightforward; “I don’t need anything.” But after having some time off, I realized how much I really wanted things. And since I am not an animal anymore, I figured I would make lists of what I actually want instead of just saying “no” on my birthday.
My boyfriend wants to give me a gift on my birthday. I want to know what he should get me. But I don’t know what kind of gift he should give me. The first thing that pops into my mind is a diamond ring. But I don’t know if he is ready for that kind of commitment yet. . Maybe a box of chocolates. But that seems too typical and easy.
The best gifts are those that the receiver can use and enjoy. So, you can ask your boyfriend what you like and see if he is able to give you a gift based on your preferences. You might also want to think about what kind of things you would like as a gift, such as clothes, jewellery, or accessories.
If you don’t have any ideas for gifts that you would like, then it is always good to get something small and inexpensive that will remind him of the day when he gave it to you.
Here are some things which will help you to decide
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1 – A new pair of sneakers! I have had these ones for about 5 years now. I wear them every day, they are comfortable, and they look good. I love wearing shoes like this because they show off my feet and make me feel great.
2 – A new laptop! I have been using my old Dell for almost 6 years now, and I am ready for a new one. Unfortunately, I am still stuck with Windows 10, but hopefully, I will get a chance to upgrade soon.
3 – A new phone case! I have had the same iPhone for over 4 years now and I think it’s time for a change. I want a new phone case that has a little bit of colour and makes my phone look cool. I would probably go with black or white.
4 – New earbuds! I know these ones are kind of silly, but I just bought these last week and I love them. They fit perfectly and sound amazing. I use these headphones every day, whether I am listening to music or watching Netflix.
5 – A new umbrella! This is probably the biggest purchase I plan to make this year. I have had this one for about 2 years now and I do not want to replace it. I want to keep this thing forever, no matter if it rains or not.
6 – A new watch! I have had this one since high school and it is starting to get a couple of small cracks in it. I want a nice new watch that doesn’t cost a fortune but looks good. Something classic.
7 – A new toothbrush! I have had this toothbrush for almost a decade now and I am tired of it. I want a new one that fits my mouth well and cleans my teeth without hurting them.
8 – A new backpack! I have had this bag for almost a year now and it is getting pretty worn out. I want a new backpack that is bigger than this one, but smaller than my messenger bag.
9 – A new belt! I want a new belt with a buckle that goes around my waist. I already have a leather belt that I wear daily, but I want a nicer replacement.
10 – An electric razor! I have had this cartridge for years now and it is starting to fall apart. I want a new cartridge that lasts longer and gives a closer shave.
11 – A new pair of jeans! I’ve had these jeans for almost 8 years now and I hate washing them. I want a pair of jeans that I can take everywhere and never worry about getting dirty.
12 – A new shirt! I have had this t-shirt for almost 2 years now and it is looking a little worn out. I want to replace it with a new one that feels soft and comfy.
Or you can also tell him to give you his shirt as a gift!
Or you can also steal his shirt and wear it on your birthday to surprise him!
13 – A new coat! This is something I definitely need. I live in Seattle and it gets cold here sometimes. I want a new coat that is thick enough to keep me warm, but thin enough to let the wind pass through.
14 – What about Cannabis? I know we have already covered that one. But seriously, how could you not want cannabis? You want to have something that makes you happy, makes you feel good, and gives you peace of mind. And if you are lucky enough to get someone who cares about you, they will want to give you something that’s just as special as you are. So why not make it happen?
15 – A trip to Jamaica! We haven’t been yet, but we are planning on going sometime in 2018 (or 2019). We don’t really care where we go either, as long as it is somewhere tropical and warm. I would love to visit some of my favourite places, like Negril, Ocho Rios, Montego Bay, etc. Plus, it would be nice to explore a different culture and experience food from a completely different perspective.
16 – An electric guitar! This may seem like a weird gift, but I play the guitar and I am always looking for ways to improve my skills. I have played for years, but I still consider myself a beginner. I would love to be able to learn a few new songs and master them. That way, I would be able to impress my friends at parties and start jamming out again.
17 – An assortment of vape pens! These are great for people who enjoy vaping and smoking weed together. There are so many flavours and types of vapes these days. I would love to try some of the newest ones and find out what works best for me and my mood.
18 – A copy of ‘The Secret’! I think everyone should read this book. Even if you aren’t interested in self-development, it is a quick read and provides valuable insights into human behaviour. If you ever need help understanding yourself or someone else, pick up a copy and take notes.
19 – A pair of workout pants! They are comfortable, durable, and provide a little extra protection in case of accidents.
20 – A bottle of wine! You are probably thinking, ”Surely she doesn’t mean alcohol?!” Well, yes, I do. Wine is amazing. It is full of antioxidants and helps reduce stress. It is also delicious paired with cheese and crackers.
21 – Flowers! Flowers are pretty much the best thing ever, especially if they are from someone who loves you. Roses, lilies, and tulips make awesome gifts, especially since they last forever! And what’s better than getting flowers? Get them on your birthday!
You can also make your birthday best my making it your big day by making your man commit to you!
If you are confused about this you can read my article hear “ how to make a man commit to you in6 ways”
22 – Chocolate! Speaking of things that last forever, chocolate is kind of perfect. Not only do chocolates taste delicious, but they also look beautiful on display. Plus, when you give someone a box of chocolates for their birthday, they know how special they are!
23 – A massage! If you want to treat yourself (or someone else) to a relaxing spa session, giving someone a massage is a great idea. Nothing feels better after a long day at work than having some serious TLC.
24 – Ice cream cake! Who doesn’t love ice cream cake?! Whether you order it in or bake it yourself, everyone knows that ice cream cake is a dream come true. And what’s even better is getting ice cream cake on your birthday!
25 – A night out! Going out to eat is always a lot of fun. So whether you decide to go out to dinner, grab some drinks, or just hang out somewhere nearby, going out is always a blast. But don’t forget to show your appreciation for all the hard work your date did the shopping, cooking, cleaning, etc. by treating them to something sweet.
And if supposedly you are dating an older man then you can make things different with him!
If you are confused then you can read my article “why I am sexually attracted to older men”.
26 – What about Dinner? Birthdays aren’t really about presents; they are about celebrating milestones in our lives. So instead of buying your friend/significant other a bunch of stuff, why not take them out to dinner instead? It is a great opportunity to catch up with each other and share stories about your past year together.
After that, you can take him to your decorated room for making love! That would be a way too pleasant idea for your birthday you can also use some naughty phrases to make him drive crazy in your love and in your bed!
Don’t know how to do it?
Don’t worry read my article by clicking on this link “ 3 naughty phrases that drive men wild in bed” to make your men wild and crazy in bed!
What should I give him in return?
If you are looking for a return gift for your boyfriend on your birthday, then you should consider something that he will love. You can’t just give him something without thinking about it. You have to think about what he likes and his interests.
The best way to find out is by asking him or looking at his social media accounts. It’s also a good idea to ask his friends and family members for suggestions on what would be the perfect gift for him too.
But remember to give something that will remind him of you always!
Like you can make him shake in bed on your birthday like he never before experienced so much pleasure in his life!
There are so many ways to make guys have in bed you can read my article here by clicking on this link “ how to make a men shake in his bed- 3- shockingly easy ways”
Go Ahead and make your day worth by returning him this favour!
Wrapping it up
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It is not weird that you are taking a gift from your boyfriend on your birthday.
It is not uncommon for couples to exchange gifts on their birthdays. It can be a way of showing how much they care about each other and how much they appreciate the other person.
The only thing that makes it weird is if you are taking a gift from him and he does not get anything in return.
However, it can also be seen as a sign of insecurity or an attempt to buy love.