9 Techniques To Teach Boyfriend When Fingering

Are you feeling sexually frustrated because your boyfriend isn’t quite hitting the right spots when it comes to fingering?

Don’t worry, I’ve got your back!

In this article, I’ll share some techniques that will not only help you guide your partner but also strengthen your bond both inside and outside the bedroom.

Get ready for a whole new level of pleasure and intimacy!

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Here are 9 insane Techniques To Teach your Boyfriend When Fingering:

  1. First finger yourself to know what you like.
  1. Show your boyfriend how you like to be fingered.
  1. Must use lube.
  1. Begin with the foreplay.
  1. Sexual tease.
  1. Fingering you while he eats you.
  1. Maybe you both can use some props to finger you.
  1. Should start slow.
  1. Show him any videos.

1. First finger yourself to know what you like..

First, try to finger yourself because if you don’t know what you like and how you like it then you cannot make him understand how you want to be fingered.

So if you explore yourself then you may experience something new, you may like and you may want to experience it with your boyfriend.

And the thing is we should know about ourselves, and our body. If we know what makes us excited and crazy in bed then it’s beneficial for you only.

2. Show your boyfriend how you like to be fingered.

So if you know how you like to be fingered then you can show your boyfriend how you like it.

So of course, if you tell him directly that he doesn’t know how to finger you then he will get hurt and it will hurt his ego also.

So, of course, you don’t want that if it will hurt his ego then he might get distant or he can even get angry or sad.

Techniques To Teach Boyfriend When Fingering
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So you can show him indirectly how you like to be fingered.

And now you are thinking how can you do that, how can you talk about this problem without hurting his ego?

But hey here I am, I am going to help you how you can show him indirectly, that how you want to be fingered or how you like to be fingered.

You can get creative in bed, you can tell him to try something new and you can tie him and tease him.

You can tease him by giving pleasure to yourself in front of him while showing him how you are doing it, in that case, he will see how you are fingering yourself and he can see how turned on you are by that.

You can show him how you like to be fingered and you both will get creative in bed and you both can experience something new which will up your game in bed.

3. Must use lube.

Using lube is important because some women may not get wet so easily so it’s important to use lube.

And some women can get wet easily and some may not but so using any lubricant will be very helpful.

Because if you are not wet enough then the friction will cause dryness and it will kill your chances of having an orgasm because it will hurt a lot.

So before fingering using lubricant is important, you will not get dry and it will be helpful for you and your boyfriend to finger him and you will have a better experience.

And using the best quality of lube will be good like water-based lube.

4. Begin with the foreplay.

Foreplay triggers your mind and physical response which makes your sexual experience better, exciting and enjoyable.

The foreplay will help you make your relationship deeper and it will help you build your emotional intimacy and you and your boyfriend will be more connected to each other than you were before.

It will help your relationship become stronger outside the bed also.

And foreplay will make you more sexually aroused.

And because of foreplay, you can even have an orgasm.

And you both can start foreplay even when you are not together. If you know that you both are going to be together, today then you can start.

You can sext, kiss him passionately when he is leaving, you can tease him, can send him a video of you doing something which he likes the most in bed that makes him aroused so much then he cannot wait to meet you.

5. Sexual tease.

If you want to heat things in bed and have a better orgasm then you should try this Sexual Tease.

It will help you and your boyfriend in bed, it will be like a warm-up before sex.

So I am going to tell you some ways how you can tease your boyfriend sexually.

  1. Leg teasing.
  2. Elevator tease.
  3. Sexting. 
  4. Tell him about your fantasies. 
  5. You can touch yourself but not let him touch you.
  6. Dress seductively.
  7. Play sexual games.
  8. Give a sensual massage.
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1. Leg teasing 

So you both are having dinner whether at a restaurant or with a family or alone.

You can tease him by touching his leg sensually and caressing his leg as high as you can. If you want to tease him more you can even lightly stroke his penis which will make him aroused and he will not be able to control himself.

2. Elevator tease.

so of course you must have seen this scene in many movies.

The elevator is crowded, everybody is looking ahead and at that time you can tease your boyfriend sneakily.

Because things heat up a lot when you are doing things in public places, it turns on you a lot, so you can try this elevator tease.

3. Sexting

You can tease your boyfriend by sexting also, so you send him naughty messages or you can send him naughty messages and tease him.

If he is at work then you can send him naughty messages and pictures. It will make him aroused and he will not be able to resist at that time, and he cannot wait to meet at the end of the day.

And if you guys haven’t met in long and going to meet today then you can tease him to make him in a good mood for better sex later.

If you both are sexting and things go well and when things start to heat up a lot then at that time stop sexting, it will make him crazy and later you will have the best time when you will meet him.

4. Tell him about your fantasies.

Talk about your fantasies with your boyfriend. He will know what things you want to try.

And you know what kind of boyfriend he is, is he the one who likes to experience new things or likes to try crazy things then you can tell him about your fantasies which seem crazy to you.

And if he is the type of boyfriend who likes to try new things but not that much, then try to do small things, or small fantasies which he will like then you can complete it with him and you both can experience something different.

Talk about your fantasies very passionately, tell him you want to do all that with him, it will make him happy and good then tell him why not we start today or whenever you can tease him like that.

When you are telling him to talk in a seductive way he will get aroused a little bit.

5. You can touch yourself but not let him touch you.

This is one of the best sexual teases you can do with your boyfriend and even this is one of the best techniques to teach your boyfriend how to finger you properly.

You can tie him and tease him, you can kiss him but not let him touch you, kiss him passionately that he wants you to untie his hands but you will not untie him and then you can finger yourself and show him how much you are enjoying and while fingering you can talk in a seductive way that will turn on him a lot.

And you should maintain eye contact with him, smile and make a facial expression seductively.

6. Dress seductively.

If you want to tease your boyfriend then you should dress very selectively.

So when he sees you in that dress he will get so excited for the next part.

You should focus on the body parts which he likes the most, and you should do this thing unplanned. He should be surprised.

And wear red lipstick it will be seductive and whisper in his ear say something naughty which will turn him on.

7. Play sexual games.

There are many sexual games which you can play with your boyfriend like strip poker or never have I ever but instead of drinking they have to strip and there are many games which you can play with him.

8. Give a sensual massage.

There are 2 massages regular massage and then there is erotic massage.

For erotic massage, you should first set the mood with good lights, candles and music and the smell of your oil massage should be good.

First, you should give him a full body massage then slowly and you should first give him a full body massage it should not feel like you just want sex at first. 

After massaging for some time then you should start teasing your boyfriend.

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You should give a massage to his erogenous zone but you should not touch it just give a massage in that area.

After all the teasing they will be sexually aroused and even a little touch in their erogenous zone will make them moan then you can give him a sensual hand job or oral.

And you can do this and vice versa even if he can give you a massage.

6. Fingering you while he eats you.

So if you have learned how to finger yourself and learned how you can teach your boyfriend to finger you then you can try this also, this will be like a next-level experience for you.

So how can you tell your boyfriend to do this to you?

So I have talked about sexual fantasies you can tell your boyfriend that this is one of your fantasies to try or you can say that you once saw it in a video and you wanted to try this.

His mouth and his finger together will be the most effective thing for your orgasm.

7. Maybe you both can use some props to finger you.

You can use sex toys when having sex with your boyfriend.

Sex toys will help you in bed, to have a better orgasm, he can finger you and use any sex toys of his choice.

And with the help of the sex toy, you may have multiple orgasms and the sex toy helps both bed partners it takes off the pressure from both of you.

And when exploring the body parts with the toys, the sex will be so hot, there are many types of toys.

Your boyfriend can handcuff you or you can handcuff him and there are sex toys which have remotes so your boyfriend can control the pressure and it will be very steamy.

You both can try new positions then you will know which position you like the most.

And you both can use sex toys in front of each other and watch each other and in that way, he will know how you like to be in bed.

8. Should start slow.

Starting slow is a very important thing because first of all, you have to set the mood. You can start with the foreplay and then slowly do things with him.

He can slowly start fingering you and according to your rhythm, he can speed himself up.

While fingering you he can tease you slowly and give you a gentle stroke that will turn you on a lot.

9. Show him any videos.

you can show him any videos whichever you like, any fingering videos you can show him.

And you can show him that video by telling him that you want to get wild with him and you want to try something different.

And by seeing the videos, things can heat up too, you both can try the same thing which is happening in the video.

I have mentioned some tips and techniques which be helpful for you and your boyfriend and you can even have an orgasm in that way.

Now I am going to answer some questions which have been asked frequently and I hope it clears your doubts more.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

You don’t have to hint at him, you can ask him directly what you want. He should know what you want and what you like in bed.

But if you are not able to tell him then talk about your fantasies that you want to try or what you have in mind.

Or you can show him any video and tell him that you want to try this thing so he will know what you want.

So every woman is different, her preference is different, some are wild and some are not wild and some want to experience different things at times they want to get wild so much that some want to do all their fantasies they can.

Some women experience orgasms differently, you just have to know the right way.

What aroused them, you have to know their techniques by being creative.

Maybe because he doesn’t know how you like to be fingered, you are supposed to tell him how you like it he is supposed to know your way.

So I have mentioned some techniques how you can teach him indirectly how you like to be fingered.

yes, you should finger yourself first because you should experience it by yourself first and it will be comfortable for you before your boyfriend does it.

Because if you will finger yourself you will know how you are feeling, are feeling good or are you not feeling good is it making you uncomfortable or something?

You should first know how you like to be fingered. You will experience it and when your boyfriend is doing it you will know whether you like his way or not.

And if you are fingering yourself for the first time then you should do proper research and you will gain some knowledge on what you should try and what you should not.

Conclusion 

In conclusion, first, you should know your body, and what does your body like. If you know your body then you will know whether you like your boyfriend or not.

Or if you are not able to have an orgasm and you know how you will have an orgasm then try something, show him the video, talk about fantasies, or use sex toys, whatever you will try it will be helpful for both of you.

Couple Sexually Obsessed

Finally Revealed!

The SECRET Trick That Makes ANY Man Sexually Obsessed Without Even Touching Him…

Try today to transform your relationship forever!

I have said you should not tell your boyfriend directly that he doesn’t know how to finger you because he will be embarrassed and hurt and his ego will also affect him, so yes whether it is your boyfriend or girlfriend if you think he or she doesn’t know how to do it then find indirect ways to tell them.

Everybody should be able to have an orgasm, so yes don’t fake an orgasm, if he is not able to satisfy you then don’t be disappointed try something that I have mentioned above.

And I have even answered some questions which have been asked frequently. I hope it is helpful for you. 

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