Why Does My Boyfriend Like To Eat Me Out
Why Does My Boyfriend Like To Eat Me Out? You must be thinking, Does your boyfriend like to eat you?
Or he just did it because you asked him to?
Or does he really like giving you oral?
You must be thinking why does your boyfriend like to eat you out or why does he like to give oral, even though he is very good at it and you love it so much when he goes down, you love the way he makes you moan with pleasure, you sometimes get shocked that how can he be good at it, but sometimes you ignore it because in the end he is making you feel good he is giving you pleasure he is making you scream with pleasure, you are having orgasm even sometimes multiple orgasms.
or even if he was not good at it, he got better with time,
And you should consider yourself lucky, especially when he is doing it in the right way,
Because some men don’t like to go down.
Even if their girlfriend gives them oral they don’t return the favour, but of course, it’s his choice, you cannot force your boyfriend to go down and neither he cannot force you to go down on him.
But you must be thinking why does he like it so much?
You have so many questions in your mind and I am going to give you answers. I am going to clear all your doubts and even answer some questions which have been asked frequently.
And I am going to tell you the top 10 surprising reasons why your boyfriend likes to eat you out, you will be surprised yet excited to know that there could be these reasons also.
And I am going to tell you what men think about giving oral sex.
And I am going to give you some tips also which will help you to have an orgasm when you are having sex with your boyfriend, and it will be something new and exciting for both of you if you haven’t tried it yet.
Here are the top 10 surprising reasons why your boyfriend likes to eat you.
- It’s his fetish.
- Maybe he likes to give you pleasure.
- Maybe he is not able to satisfy you while having sex that’s why he is giving you oral.
- Maybe he likes the reaction you give him when he is down.
- Maybe he gets turned on while giving you oral.
- Maybe he likes to dominate you in bed.
- He likes the way you smell and taste.
- He goes down because he uses it as foreplay.
- Maybe your boyfriend wants you to return the same favour to him.
- Maybe he wants sex all the time.
1. It’s his fetish.
Many guys love giving oral to their girlfriends, they enjoy it while giving oral, gives pleasure to their girlfriend and him both. Your boyfriend will get turned on while giving you pleasure.
And it’s not called fetish because they can have an orgasm even if they don’t go down on a woman.
But some men cannot have an orgasm if they don’t go down on a woman, it’s necessary
For them to go down on a woman to have an orgasm, so, they have to perform oral sex on their girlfriend so that he can cum.
If he always asks you to go down on you all the time, giving oral to you makes him hard, and makes him cum, he will even do it when you are on your period.
So, if you feel like he is doing it a lot, and it’s making you feel not good or uncomfortable then ask him to not do it so much, and talk to him about how you are feeling.
2. Maybe he likes to give you pleasure
So, some guys like to give pleasure to their girlfriends through oral sex, it gives pleasure to women.
But men who like to give pleasure to women also get so much pleasure by going down on their girlfriends.
They get so turned on when they go down on a woman, they enjoy it a lot when they see you have the best time because of them.
They like the way you moan, the way you scream his name, the way he is making you feel it turns him on a lot, he feels good about himself.
And they love it when you keep your fingers in his hair, they love the feeling of your finger it turns on them more.
They find it sexy, and for some men, it’s their favourite part when they go down.
3. Maybe he is not able to satisfy you while having sex that’s why he is giving you oral.
Some guys are not able to satisfy their women in bed, either they cum very fast or they take a lot of time to cum or they are not very good at it.
So, they don’t feel good about it, and they can even get depressed because of that because they will overthink it a lot, they will feel less about themself, and they will feel guilty.
And 75% of women don’t even have an orgasm from penetration, and if you are also not able to have an orgasm you might also be thinking that your guy is not doing it in the right way.
And you might also feel incomplete after sex because you did not have the pleasure you didn’t reach the climax.
Or you might be thinking that there is something wrong with you.?Nothing is wrong with you it’s kind of common that some women don’t even have an orgasm from sexual intercourse.
If it is the case then I am going to give you some tips or some ways through which you can have an orgasm with your boyfriend.
You and your boyfriend will also have fun because of that, you both might experience some new things, and you can even have multiple orgasms
So the reason for him going down on you a lot could be that he is not able to satisfy you in bed properly, and he wants that you should also get satisfaction in bed, so he goes down on you to give you pleasure, or finger you.
Some tips or some ways through which you can have an orgasm.
- Sex toys
You both can use sex toys, it will be good for you and it will be very intense also, you can even have an orgasm with the help of sex toys or even you can even have multiple orgasms.
And your relationship with him will get deeper only, there are many toys you can use with,
whichever you like.
But of course, you should have his consent before doing anything, because he should also feel comfortable using sex toys, you cannot force him, so ask if he is comfortable or not.
- Massage session
We all know massage sessions are the best, it relaxes our body and mind, and you feel good, so as I said massage sessions are the best.
And they can even get better if you are giving him a massage or receiving the massage with a bit of a twist.
And that twist would be that, while massaging him, go down on him, use massage oils and give him a hand job also.
At first, when you are starting the massage keep it normal, give him a full body massage but after 15 or 20 min start massaging down but don’t touch his intimate area tease him he will get so turned on because of that, after some time give him a blowjob and hand job, and he can also give you this massage.
- Tie him
You can tie him, and tease him. While teasing him he cannot do anything he will get so turned on by this act.
And you can even use some lubricants also, go down on him and then when he is going to cum stop at that time, it will get so wild.
But of course, ask him before tying him, he should be comfortable doing that.
- Finger yourself in front of him
So, when you tie him you can even please yourself in front of him, it will get so intense and wild, you might experience the best orgasm, your moan will make him more aroused and he will not be able to control himself and take matters into his own hands.
If you like to be submissive in bed then you will like it a lot when he will have all the control over you.
And you both will have an amazing experience.
- Sexual fantasies
You both can try new sexual fantasies which you always wanted to try.
Now is the time to try some of your sexual fantasies.
But if you’re doing this for the first time then you should start with small fantasies because you both should be comfortable first and should know about each other’s body needs and wants.
So begin with small then slowly go with the big fantasies, you never know you might get to know something new about your boyfriend.
4. Maybe he likes the reaction you give him when he is down.
Men love your reaction, the way you react they think it’s sexy, men like to see that their girlfriend is so relaxed in bed, getting satisfied by him, moaning his name, putting your fingers in his hair, lightly massaging it, they can feel how good you are feeling.
And your boyfriend will get more and more aroused by your moan, he likes to spoil you in bed, and for some men, it’s the best part of sex.
He likes to watch the way you move when he is giving you pleasure, they feel so proud of themselves when you are enjoying the oral sex.
So this could also be the reason for him to go down on you.
If you want to make him more aroused with your reactions or with your body language then.
I am going to tell you some ways through which he will get more aroused and you can have a better orgasm.
- Touch his hair and play with his hair when he is pleasuring you.
- You can wrap your legs around his neck and you can squeeze your thighs when you are going to have an orgasm.
- You can touch your breasts, and play with your nipples so when he will look at you he can have a sexy view, it will be pleasurable for you and him both.
- When you start feeling good you can move your ass with the same rhythm he is moving his tongue.
- And you can compliment him on how good he is, if he makes you feel very good then moan as much as you can he will get encouraged by your words and he will do it more nicely.
So, these are some ways you can make him more aroused with your body language, and with this, you both will get pleasure, it is beneficial for both of you.
If you do this then he will feel good about himself and he will get more confidence and he will get better and better at this
5. Maybe he gets turned on while giving you oral.
Some men like to give oral and some don’t like to give oral, and your boyfriend is one of the guys who like to go down, he likes to give you pleasure, he feels aroused when he is down on you.
Everybody gets turned on differently, you just have to find out what turns him on.
For some men, the arousing point is the neck, kissing, women giving them a blowjob or hand job, or teasing him, or maybe your boobs and he goes down on you.
So, your boyfriend gets turned on or aroused while giving you oral sex, they like that they have control over you and he feels very confident that you are aroused because of him, and that their tongue can make you weak,( in a good way of course).
And Your boyfriend gets hard when he goes down on you, your moaning makes him hard and sometimes he can even have an orgasm while he is giving you oral.
And of course, after making you all hot and bothered and satisfied, later the sex gets better, better kiss and better blowjob and handjob.
And some guys like the closeness, intimacy, and trust they get from you when you allow them to go down on you
6. Maybe he likes to dominate you in bed.
Some men like to dominate women in bed and even some women like to dominate men in bed, and it is sexy and fun, and it is more fun when a guy who likes to dominate women in bed meets the women who like to get submissive in bed and vice versa.
And dominating in bed gives so much pleasure to men and women both, and many men like to be submissive in bed.
So if your boyfriend likes to go down on you a lot then this could be one of the reasons that he likes to dominate you.
Because when he is down he has all the control over you, he can control when you can have an orgasm he can even tease you when he is down on you.
when you are just on the edge of the climax he can stop it at that time to tease you.
So, yes this is one of the reasons why he likes to go down on you a lot.
Now, I am going to tell you some signs to know if your boyfriend is dominating or not.
- He has all the control in bed while having sex
- He bosses you around in bed
- He sometimes talks about giving you a punishment
- He chooses those positions where he has the control
- His attitude changes in bed
So, these were some signs to know if your boyfriend is dominating in bed or not.
7. He likes the way you smell and taste.
Another reason for him going down on you a lot could be that he loves the way your vagina tastes and smells.
But your boyfriend can only enjoy oral sex if you are enjoying it when he is down on you, even if he is enjoying it, but if he gets the sense that you are not enjoying it then it will be a turn-off for him.
If you have any problem or are feeling uncomfortable then talk to him about it openly, you both will know how you are feeling, and it will be better for your relationship with him only, to talk openly.
So he might like the way you taste and smell. Maybe that’s why he likes to eat you out.
8. He goes down because he uses it as foreplay.
Some men use oral sex as foreplay because it turns you on and makes you get ready for more things because you will be wet and which will make it easy while having sex and you will want more sex.
There are many types of foreplay which can be used in the beginning, foreplay helps to build sexual tension and foreplay will make both partners aroused a lot in bed before sex.
Some men use romantic gestures as foreplay or do some role-playing, or make out session as foreplay and some use oral sex as foreplay or some uses sex toys.
So, your boyfriend is one of the guys who use oral sex as foreplay, to get you ready for the other things.
9. Maybe your boyfriend wants you to return the same favour to him.
Some guys think that if you will go down on him then only he will go down on you.
So, he treats you with good oral sex, he makes you moan and he pleasures you so that he will also get the best head.
So, when a woman is happily satisfied she wants to treat him well, as well, so she gives him the best blowjob and handjob, they feel very good when a woman gives them a blowjob and handjob.
So, maybe your boyfriend wants the same thing from you that you go down on him as well.
10. Maybe he wants sex all the time.
Maybe your boyfriend wants sex all the time that’s why he is going down on you, to make you feel good to give you pleasure, to make you addicted to him that’s why he is going down on you a lot.
Maybe you are very attracted that’s why he is not able to control himself whenever he is with you.
So, that could also be the reason for him to go down on you.
I have mentioned some reasons why your boyfriend likes to eat you out a lot. I hope it will be helpful for you and now I am going to answer some questions which have been asked frequently.
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTION (FAQs)
- Does my boyfriend actually get turned on from eating me out? I’ve been told I taste good before, but are they just lying?
Yes, your boyfriend actually gets turned on when he is going down on you because some guys get pleasure from pleasuring you.
And I have also mentioned this point that your boyfriend gets turned on while eating you out, it makes him hard, your moan, your body language makes him turned on.
And no your boyfriend is not lying about your taste because if you do not taste good he will not say anything about it and if you have been told before that you taste good then, of course, he is not lying, if others will also say the same thing then it’s not a lie.
And even if he says that you don’t smell good then, first go to your doctor and have a check-up and if everything is normal then tell him that vagina cleans itself, and every woman has a different smell.
- Do guys really like giving oral sex?
Most guys love giving oral, but most don’t like to give oral, if your boyfriend really likes to give you oral then you will know by his reaction and all.
And I have mentioned why men like to give oral sex, but if you don’t like it when he goes down on you he will know it and it will be a turn-off for him, some men will understand and some will not.
And guys love giving women pleasure, for some men, it is very arousing, some men will get so hard and even cum sometimes, some men love the way you smell and taste, they like the reaction you give when they are pleasuring you.
So, yes men love giving oral sex to women, and some men want the same thing in return, and some men will only get turned when they are performing oral sex, so yes, some guys love giving oral to women
- Is a man more likely to fall in love with a woman, who is literally addicted to giving her the best oral sex of her life?
No, just because he gives you the best oral it does not mean that he will fall in love with you.
If he is addicted to giving you oral sex then it will be called ORAL SEX ADDICTION.
So, if your boyfriend is addicted to giving you oral whenever he is with you, or he gives more importance to oral than sex, then he is addicted it will not be called LOVE.
If he is addicted to it then he uses oral sex as drugs, like how people use alcohol and drugs so that their pain will ease, he can use sex or oral sex for their depression or anxiety so that they will feel better.
Love is a different thing, for falling in love you both are supposed to know each other very well so that you can stay together happily.
If he is addicted to giving you oral then he might not be in love and also it depends upon how long you both have been together,
He might just be into you sexually, this can also be a case that he is into you just sexually and nothing else, so you have to know that he just wants to be with you sexually or want more than that, either you have to ask him or you have to see how he is with you.
- Does he just sleep after sex?
- Does he not talk to you after sex or cuddle with you?
- Does he go back to his home after sex?
- Whenever you both are meeting it’s always his home or yours, you both never meet outside?
- Does he avoid meeting you out?
If this is the case then you have to confront him or talk to him openly and calmly.
In conclusion, if you like it when your boyfriend gives you oral sex then its the best but if you feel uncomfortable or shy about it but you still want him to go down on you so you have to talk to him about how you feel about it and let him know what you want and your needs.
Talk to him about it, tell him what makes you comfortable then he will do anything to make you feel good.
I have mentioned almost everything about why your boyfriend likes to eat you out a lot, I have told you the top 10 reasons and I hope it clears all your doubts, and even I have answered some questions which have been asked frequently.
If you know what he really likes about it then do it more, he will get so aroused by it, and try some new things also which can arouse him more.
And always have his consent before trying anything new, he should be comfortable doing it, if he will not like it then it might build some tension between you two or it might get awkward also, so always have his consent.